Real Faith

I don’t know if doubt makes faith more real, but what I know is there is a lot of doubt in real faith.

Christians are (I think more than most) determined to be certain about everything about them.  When there are aspects of our faith which feel uncertain, it makes us nervous.  Most of the time we just gloss over those points.  If we are pressed, we thump our Bible a little harder when we shout the party line.  We are afraid of how messy faith might be if we admit some of the deepest questions are not easy, but are

Over the last several months, I have spent regular time with a friend whose daughter was raped by a boy at church.  His faith has gone through a number of deep valleys and he is not, by any means, out yet.

Many well-meaning Christians have assured him, “God has a plan,” or “I know God will bless you in all of this.”  Others have offered counsel that he and his wife should have been more restrictive as parents, and if they had, this would not have happened.  Others have told them their daughter was asking for it.

Is it any wonder my friend’s faith has been shaken?

He is wondering, “If God has a plan, why was my daughter’s rape a part of that plan.”  I don’t have an answer.

He is wondering, “Why do these people who say they love me insist on poking sharp sticks at me?”  I don’t have an answer.

I am watching his life and how he is wrestling with God and am moved by his faith.  His faith has been shaken to the core, but the faith I see emerging from the dust is a faith that is far more real than the one that entered it.  He sees a God who is beyond our understanding, but is indeed loving.  He sees a God who is not a cheap vending machine–put in faith at the top and get goodies out of the bottom.  He sees a God who is real.

The real, unanswerable questions of his faith are not something he ignores, or glosses over.  Instead, he freely talks about it.  He is not ashamed of having a faith that has questions, but lives by the faith he has.  I would rather have real and messy than plastic, neat and tidy.

My friend, S, will probably never read this blog post.  If he does, I want him to know how much I admire his faith.  He has taught me much in our time together.  His strength is remarkable.

Thanks, S, for having real faith.  Those of us watching from the outside are inspired to have it ourselves.

About shepherd

I am a pastor at a local church.
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2 Responses to Real Faith

  1. Vernon says:

    speaking as one whose daughter has been raped. Let me publicly state that the things I asked the judge to do to the rapist had very little to do with forgiveness. I am glad God is more forgiving than I am and it probably good that the judge did not listen to me.

  2. santana acuna says:

    every one.. wonder why 9.11 why god would allow something like that.. why dose he allow you to do what you do?> why have you forsaken me?<we just have to keep keeping on .. faith is the hope we put in GODs word PASTOR SANTANA L ACUNA

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