M (the chairman of the elders–remember him?) called me today to make sure I was “on” for Sunday. He sounded like the weight of the world was on his shoulders. We hung up and I went to see him.
He was completely distraught. He hadn’t slept.
I didn’t go to hear what he was thinking or what he was planning. I really just wanted to sit with him to remind him he was not alone. I needed to know that too, actually.
We just sat there a long time. We talked around stuff. I didn’t ask anything. But then he began to talk–really talk.
He is genuinely sorry for what is going on. He has heard these complaints about E for years. He kept sending people to E to speak to him directly. Now he understands, they couldn’t. He sees, those people are largely absent from the congregation. He sees what E is doing to the elders. He is seeing what E has done to S.
Then he dropped the bomb.
Monday, he is going to give E the opportunity to resign. If E does not resign, M will move to have the other elders remove him from leadership. He looked down and said, “If they don’t remove him…” M paused for a long time, “I will resign myself. This can’t go on.”
Wow.
We prayed. I left.
Now I have hope–at least a little. God could be changing everything….again.
M is standing up! wow.
so you have a pastor, a worship leader, possibly an elder, teach one of the kids to run a soundsystem and you have a church again! That did not turn out so bad before!