Fruit of the Vine

I am in a denomination, like many in the US, which uses grape juice for the Lord’s Supper.

Sunday, as a communion meditation, one of our elders made the argument that in Scripture, there are a couple different words for wine.  One for old wine, one for new wine and then the word(s) used for wine in the institution of the Lord’s Supper.  He made the point that old wine was “the hard stuff”  new wine was in transition, but the “fruit of the vine” was just the produce of the earth.  It was the purest, uncorrupted grape juice–just like Jesus.

My question is, “If it really is just, “produce of the earth” or the pure “fruit of the vine,” how do we know Jesus is not talking about tomato juice?”  The answer, of course, is because they didn’t drink tomato juice, they drank wine.  We are committed to grape juice because it is our tradition.

From the very beginning the Church has celebrated communion with wine.  It was not until the last 100 or so years that we even considered grape juice.  (See this Church History by Christianity Today piece for example).  In our pursuit of sterile, politically correct communion, we have left the idea of communion altogether and exchanged it for little, individual wafers and little, individual cups of juice.  Sad.

I had several people Sunday ask me about the communion meditation.  “Is it right?”

Soda for Communion?What was done Sunday is typical for what has been done in churches for decades.  They make detailed, logical arguments from the Greek.  Who could argue with that.  How about this?

In the English, we have a number of words for carbonated beverages.  We say, “Pepsi” if we are talking about the sickeningly sweet drink.  We say, “Coke” if we want a really well-balanced, drinkable cola. (ok, maybe that shows a bias…)  But when we commune together, we pour a soda.  Soda is the purest form of carbonated beverage that exists, for it is neither Coke, nor Pepsi, but it is soda.

We immediately see the foolishness of such an argument because we are very familiar with carbonated beverages.  We know “soda” is a broad category which includes both Coke and Pepsi as well at Mt. Dew, Dr. Pepper and Shasta (eeeew).  To say, we drank a soda, simply means we drank a carbonated beverage made of water and syrup as opposed to juice or whatever else one might carbonate.

Likewise, in the ancient world, they had a variety of words to describe wine with varying levels of specificity, but “Fruit of the vine” is not more specific, but less specific.  Additionally, it completely ignores Jesus’ culture and what would be on the table at a Passover meal.  The table drink was wine.

Why do we allow such silliness to be a central part of our service?  If you were to speak to this elder, you would find temperance to be central to his theology about communion and about Jesus.  It misses the whole point.

The point of the Eucharist is Jesus.  It is His body and blood.  His death.  His sacrifice.  To make the point of it some argument for temperance cheapens it beyond words.

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Leading with Grace

I suppose there are places where one can bark orders and have them blindly followed, but the church is not among them.

We who have the gift of leadership often think when we speak, everyone should listen.  They don’t.

Leading in the church means learning to deal with people with sufficient grace that they want to follow us.

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Sugar Packets and Paper Cups, Part 1

Four years of college.  Two masters’ degrees.  One doctorate.  A career leading the church and teaching the very Word of God.  So why do I care about sugar packets and paper cups?

Simple.  Because sugar packets and paper cups have consumed the last few weeks of my life.

When I arrived at the church a few months ago, I noticed we were missing the primary element of the sacrament of fellowship–coffee.  So I set out to fix it.  I went through the proper channels to allocate the money, approve having a new area of ministry and found a leader, H.  The leader was the perfect leader–a new believer with a passion for good coffee and a desire to serve.

In orienting H to the ministry, I sat down with her to find out how she wanted to do coffee.  I asked her for a list of start-up supplies she needed and told her I would pick them up for her to help kick things off.  I bought coffee, creamer, sugar packets and paper cups.Sugar Packet

We were all set.

Friday evening before the first coffee Sunday, I get an email from one of our elders.  “I saw the cups and sugar packets in the kitchen.  We need to talk.  Can you meet me at the church tomorrow morning?”  We had a meeting that morning anyway, so I agreed to meet.

For an hour he explained to me how his wife runs the kitchen and fellowship ministry.  She buys all of the supplies and what we bought just won’t work.  We are 10 oz cup people, not 12.  We are loose sugar people, not packet.  And, by the way, we are Folgers, not Starbucks.

Using all of my personal restraint, we made it through that conversation.  The end was an agreement we would all communicate better and the elder’s wife could buy the supplies and she would leave the ministry leader to make the coffee and run the ministry.

Problem solved.  Right?

Wrong.

The next morning, the elder and his wife were at the church building to meet H.  They wanted to tell her how to make the coffee, how much to use, how many cups to put out, where to put the coffee pots, etc, etc, etc.  The end result was H wondering if she should has stepped into something she shouldn’t.

So, again, we talked.  This time about how to treat volunteers.  Empowering.  Resourcing.  Supporting.

I have to tell you.  Stuff like this makes me not want to be a pastor.

So ends, part 1.  Oh that part 1 were the end.

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Satisfaction

This is one of those days that makes ministry good for me.

A day dedicated to sermon preparation.  I get to spend the whole day hanging out at a Starbucks, drinking good coffee and thinking about Jesus.  THAT is why I got into all this.

So let the emails pile.  Let the messages stack.  I have a study day.  :)

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Pastoral Relationships

I just finished two meetings over coffee and about to go to a third.

The first was a church member.  The second was the first time meeting a pastoral colleague.  The third will be with an elder at church.  Which is safe?

The answer to the question is, “There is no way of telling.”

The first person asked me, “Are you happy here?”

The second person wanted to talk theology.

The third person requested the meeting.

It is hard to tell when someone is legitimately trying to connect with you and when someone is trying to get information for another purpose.

I believe the first person really wanted to know, but who knows?  If I say, “Yes,” I am being less than honest.  If I say, “No,” where will it go?  Will it be the kind of thing that will bite me?

The second person was as worried as I was about the safety of the conversation.  We both gave bits of truth to see how the other reacted.  We both calculated the risk.  I think we found it safe enough to talk again.  We will see.

The third is dangerous.  I have huge amounts of respect for him on a number of different levels.  What scares me are things he has publicly said to the congregation.  He has told them it is the job of the elders to make sure I have all the right doctrine and if I veer off, they should immediately get rid of me.  That sounds so noble.  It is not.  It is cruel.  Who determines right doctrine?  What if I say, “I believe it is not a sin to drink a glass of wine?”  One elder believes it is.  Another does not.  Do they fire me?

In ministry, over the years, I have longed for and found good friends.  It just takes a while to determine who those friends should be.

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Ground Work

Being as the plan for this blog is to be raw and only lightly edited thoughts, it might be wise to give you some insight into who I am and what I think/believe about the church.

I have been a follower of Jesus for 25+ years and take my faith very seriously.  I am radically committed to preaching, teaching and living by the Scripture.  It is where I find the clearest clues as to the identity and character of the God in whose world we live and whom I serve.

I love the Church.  She is the gathering of God’s redeemed people.  She loves God.  She loves people.  She is, at times dysfunctional.  She sometimes so frustrating that I want to scream.  She sometimes wounds her pastors, her shepherds.

Sheep are, at times, mean.  Shepherds seem to feel the brunt of their aggression.

Shepherds are the ones who chase after wandering sheep.  But sometimes shepherds want to wander off.  This blog is my wandering.

I wander.  I wander because I am human.  Because I am a pastor, no one comes looking for me.  This blog is my attempt at finding myself.

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The Who and the Why.

Welcome to my new blog.

I am completely new at this, but want to give it a shot.

I am the pastor of a local church.  We are not large, nor are we small.  I live in a suburb of a large US city with my wife and three children.  I have been in the pastoral ministry for over 20 years.  The first time I preached a sermon was to a congregation of 6 people.  I made 7.  Currently, I serve at a church of 300.

I recently moved to my current pastorate after a long and good ministry in a relatively new church in a very small town.  My transition back into a traditional church has reminded me how difficult being a pastor can be.  I decided to blog about being a pastor to allow me to give voice to thoughts that would not be interesting or well received at church.

If it is uninteresting, or offensive to you, please don’t stick around and read it.

Move on.  Nothing to see here.

If you are a layman (for lack of a better term) read glimpses into the mind of a regular pastor.

If you are a pastor, I hope you will hear your own thoughts reflected and hopefully be encouraged.  If nothing else, you are not alone.

I have opted to keep my name from being attached to the blog for obvious reasons.

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